I wish it was less spicy so others could eat it

Even without a win yet, this season of girls volleyball has still been tremendously rewarding. I keep making a really unhealthy, really hot, delicious jalapeno dip. I wish it was healthier (less unhealthy) so I could feel good about eating it. Being very simple and telling people what you appreciate about them is amazingly powerful.
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Norman:
I'm a middle aged white man who lives in a medium sized town in upstate New York.
(16 October 2016)

Karmen:
My mother had no problem with her boyfriend spanking me if I acted up as a kid, should both have been arrested?
(16 October 2016)

Karmen:
This was back in the 1980's so too late to do anything now and my mother has died.
(16 October 2016)

Dina:
I have not seen my mother's side of the family since 1993. How would I approach them if I were to contact them?
(16 October 2016)

Dina:
I always feel I missed out on knowing family due to the issues my mother at had the same time she had the right to be mad.
(16 October 2016)

Dina:
No one from her family came to us when she died so I don't know what kind of reception I will get.
(16 October 2016)

Dina:
My mother died in 2014 so I thought I would try to reconnect and the older sibling who abused her has died I found out.
(16 October 2016)

Dina:
She was molested as a kid and they did not defend her enough for her wishes.
(16 October 2016)

Dina:
My mother had a falling out with them and wouldn't let us see them as kids.
(16 October 2016)

Gilma:
Why do I give up on love so easily?
(16 October 2016)