I then started to google some of the common issues couples face

I was genuinely appalled at some of the articles. The approach that worked for us is to first seek to understand and then to be understood. I first learned of this principle from Steven Covey. People have varying degrees of priorities and values. For her, she loves to have a glass (or bottle) of wine with dinner.
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Teressa:
Well, I'm an Indian girl and almost 13, and I wanted to ask if I am decent looking, because a lot of my friends, who are girls, tend to call me cute.
(15 October 2016)

Flo:
What are my chances of being pregnant? Helpppp?
(15 October 2016)

Magen:
How do I convince my dad to let me travel?
(15 October 2016)

Magen:
HE IS NOT WORRIED ABOUT ME he says that's for literally everything.
(15 October 2016)

Magen:
Today there is a band competition and I am on the team but he says I can't travel because I'll have a seizure.
(15 October 2016)

Tobi:
How do i know when someone is flirting with me?
(15 October 2016)

Corrina:
A colleague whose proposition I rejected hasn't been doing well at his job since then?
(15 October 2016)

Corrina:
The boss is getting complaints about him now.
(15 October 2016)

Corrina:
I'm on good terms with the boss...Is there anything I can do to help him?
(15 October 2016)

Corrina:
After that his performance at work has been pretty dismal, when before it was well above the mark.
(15 October 2016)